Don't get me wrong...I have my days, when I just don't know what will help Kaden stop screaming and banging his head like a mad person. And the teenage hormones can send Mahala from being little Miss Sunshine to Cruella Deville. But, I expect those days to come. And when those days are in the here and now I try real hard to imagine the day they wont be making a trail of cracker crumbs from the kitchen table to the tv. There will be a day that Skylar, Mahala and Kaden will have their own families and I will hopefully be a Grandma just begging for her Grandkiddos to come over and bake a mud pie with me. When I think about that it makes it a little easier and then I'm able to stop rocking in the corner praying Hubby walks in at any moment. And I can try to enjoy whatever glimmer of happiness I can find in any situation.
I pray a lot, I pray every day for patience and strength with a glimpse of my child's heart. Sometimes if we look at life through our Kiddo's eyes, we see their heart...their intent. We can see that their goal wasn't to take us down piece by piece. You will be able to find glorious opportunities to teach and love them to greatness.
Having a Friend or group of Friends is always important too. I have my Sister and if she wasn't there for me on those days that I want to just cry because I don't know what I can do to help Kaden through his meltdown I don't know what I would do. Hubby and I have also been making date night a major priority too. We let it slide the past few years, because we were caught up in therapy with Kaden. We now have remembered our relationship needs to come first, right after our relationship with God.
What helps you get through those trying days? Give us your Secrets.....
Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate.